One of my clients recently had a case which I am explaining below and if you are stuck in such similar situation, here is what to do.
Note: Due to attorney-client privilege, I cannot disclose complete case details or identify the actual parties involved. However, I am sharing the essential facts and legal approach so that if you find yourself in a similar situation, you can understand the available solutions and legal remedies.
Ms. X, a 25-year-old woman from City A, was in a relationship with Mr. Y for approximately 1.5 years. When marriage discussions began in Mr. Y’s family, he requested Ms. X to speak with her father about their relationship. Despite Ms. X agreeing to discuss the matter, even though the actual marriage might be delayed by 1-2 years, her father reacted violently upon learning about the relationship.
The father, Mr. Z, became abusive and started making death threats against Ms. X, saying he would kill her rather than allow the marriage to proceed. The situation escalated to physical violence, with Mr. Z threatening to harm both Ms. X and Mr. Y. The family environment became toxic, with constant verbal abuse, intimidation, and threats. Ms. X feared for her life and safety, as her father’s behavior became increasingly unpredictable and violent, creating a hostile home environment.
Advice in Such Cases
Consult with Lawyer: The very basic and important step to start is talk to Lawyer / advocate. You should not hesitate in paying his consultation fee i.e. might be in range of Rs. 10,000 to 50,000 depends case to case. He is helping you in this situation to come out. He is expert in the domain and can help you explain the procedure which you might have never explored. A good lawyer can get the issues resolved much faster than you think.
Document all incidents of abuse and threats immediately. Record dates, times, and details of each threatening statement or violent act. Seek support from trusted friends or relatives who can provide temporary shelter if needed. Contact women’s helplines for immediate assistance and guidance on safety measures that can be implemented right away.
Applicable Sections of Law
Under the Bharatiya Nyaya Sanhita (BNS), this case involves Section 351 (criminal intimidation), Section 352 (intentional insult with intent to provoke breach of peace), and Section 115 (voluntarily causing hurt). The Bharatiya Nagarik Suraksha Sanhita (BNSS) provisions under Section 173 allow for immediate protective measures. Additionally, the Domestic Violence Act applies, providing comprehensive protection against domestic abuse, threats, and intimidation within family relationships.
If You Are the Complainant
- File an immediate complaint at the nearest police station with all documented evidence of threats and abuse
- Apply for a protection order under the Domestic Violence Act to ensure immediate safety measures
- Gather witness statements from family members, neighbors, or friends who witnessed the abusive behavior
- Maintain detailed records of all incidents including photographs of any physical injuries sustained
- Seek medical examination if physical violence occurred to create official medical evidence
If You Are the Victim
- Prioritize personal safety above all else and remove yourself from dangerous situations immediately
- Inform trusted friends or relatives about the situation and arrange alternative accommodation if possible
- Keep important documents like identity cards, bank details, and certificates in a safe place outside the home
- Contact domestic violence helplines for immediate support and guidance on available resources
- Do not attempt to confront or reason with the abuser during violent episodes
How the Police Behave in Such Cases
Police typically take domestic violence cases seriously, especially when death threats are involved. They may initially attempt mediation but should register an FIR if requested. Officers are trained to provide immediate protection and may arrange temporary shelter. However, some officers might suggest family counseling first, but victims have the right to demand formal legal action and protection orders.
FAQs People Normally Have
- Can I file a case against my own father? Yes, domestic violence laws protect family members from abuse regardless of relationship.
- Will filing a complaint destroy family relationships? Your safety is paramount; legal action may actually lead to better family dynamics through counseling.
- What if my father denies making threats? This is why documentation and witness statements are crucial evidence.
- Can I get immediate protection? Yes, protection orders can be obtained quickly in genuine threat cases.
What Evidence Is Required?
- Audio or video recordings of threatening statements or abusive behavior
- Written documentation of incidents with dates, times, and detailed descriptions
- Medical reports if physical violence resulted in injuries
- Witness statements from people who observed the abusive behavior
- Screenshots of threatening messages or communications
- Photographs of any property damage caused during violent episodes
- Records of previous complaints or police interventions
How Long Will the Investigation Take?
Domestic violence investigations typically take 2-3 months for completion. However, protective measures can be implemented immediately upon filing the complaint. Emergency protection orders are usually processed within 24-48 hours. The timeline depends on evidence complexity, witness availability, and cooperation from all parties involved. Courts prioritize such cases due to their serious nature.
Advocate Sudhir Rao, Supreme Court of India

